QUALITY TIME

“Quality of time over quantity.” - Gary Chapman

People who speak the love language of quality time understand the commitment that goes into giving your time to someone. They understand that giving someone their time in order to adventure, listen to each other, and talk, creates the most empowering love.

This emphasis on the importance of conversation often creates connection between words of affirmation and quality time lovers; however, oftentimes people who speak quality time have a hard time connecting to their own emotions, since they love listening to others voices so much more (which words of affirmation lovers would have a problem with). If quality time is your love language it is smart to understand where you stand in the importance of talking, as talking through emotions is valuable in enduring meaningful relationships through the love language of quality time.

Signs that this is your love language: Are you often annoyed by people who are on their phone or fail to make eye contact with you at dinner? Do you find joy in just sitting in silence with people you love? If so, quality time may be your love language.

INCLUDED IN THE QUALITY TIME KIT

QUALITY TIME DOS AND DONTS POSTCARD

(read through the postcard to understand what love means to people who speak quality time)

QUALITY TIME STICKER

(a symbol to remember how each love language is of equal importance to the next)

10 MYSTERY ADVENTURES SCRATCH OFF BOOK

(a mystery scratch-off adventures book to help you create quality time memories with space to write notes about what happened throughout the activity)

TEA TOWEL

(a tea towel to remind you of tea time a widely popular quality time activity)

SCHEDULING NOTEPAD

(a notepad that requires you to make your plans happen. Planning a date and time for the activity at hand ensures that you take quality time together seriously.)

ADVENTURE IDEAS NOTEPAD

(a notepad to help you keep track of and think of new adventures to go on with someone who speaks quality time)

LISTENING STICK

(something to hold when you need a reminder that the person you love requires a balanced conversation where you each take turns speaking and listening. If you’re holding this stick you are just listening)

My Main Inspirations in creating Learn to Love: 5 Love Language Kits:

5 Love Language: The Secret To Love That Lasts Forever by Gary Chapman

The 5 Love Languages: Singles Edition by Gary Chapman

The Body Is Not an Apology, Second Edition: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor

Instagram Body Positivity Illustrator @lainey.molnar

VOCALIZING STICK

(something to hold when you need a reminder that the person you love requires a balanced conversation where you each take turns speaking and listening. If you’re holding this stick you are just vocalizing your thoughts)